在我们每一个人的生活中,朋友必不可少。朋友是彼此的依靠,彼此的牵挂。每天我们都会遇到形形色色的人,也许一面之后就能成为交心的朋友,也许认识好多年都未必成为好朋友。交友是一门学问,本文就跟读者朋友谈谈如何交友。

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On making friends 关于交友

在我们每一个人的生活中，朋友必不可少。朋友是彼此的依靠，彼此的牵挂。每天我们都会遇到形形色色的人，也许一面之后就能成为交心的朋友，也许认识好多年都未必成为好朋友。交友是一门学问，本文就跟读者朋友谈谈如何交友。 Everyone needs friends, and if you fail to make friends, you should examine yourself and see if there is something wrong with your personality.

May be you have social faults such as snobbishness, talkativeness and using slang etc. which drive away your new acquaintances. Whatever your social faults may be, look at them honestly and make real effort to correct them.

To be friendly you must feel friendly. Cheerfulness is the basis of friendliness. A cheerful people smiles. A smile is a magnet which draws people . Smile at someone and you are almost sure to get a smile in return.

A friendly person does his best to make a stranger feel at home, wherever he happens to be. Put yourself in the other fellow’s place and make them feel welcome.

Try to remember names. It makes your new acquaintances feel happy when you call them by their names. It gives them the feeling that they have made an impression on you and that mean something to them because you remember them.

If you don’t agree with other people on a certain matter, you should appear to be friendly. Don’t argue, but discuss. You always lose friends if you argue too much.